My legs spun in harmony with each other. They whizzed around and around while the rest of me teetered. This balance thing wasn’t proving to be easy, but I was staying upright. I was moving fast enough for a little wind resistance to blow my hair around. I was loving the freedom and the speed.
“Are you ready for me to let go?”
My dad was moving the fastest I believe I had ever seen him run. His left hand was planted on the back of my seat and his right hand grasped my handlebar. He was holding me up but I was choosing the speed. It turned out to be too much for him because without any indication from me that I was ready, he stopped running.
I rocked back and forth. I pedaled faster because I thought that would help me stay upright. I watched my knees bob up and down. The rhythm was kind of fascinating until I hit the gutter and one of them popped up and hit me in the cheek while the rest of me tumbled to the ground. I was pissed.
“Jake! Are you alright?”
Still winded from the half-block sprint he had just recently completed, my father jogged over to make sure I wasn’t going to die. Immediately, he could tell I was angry.
“You weren’t paying attention to the road! Get back on and try again!”
He started running, I started pedaling, he stopped and I watched the asphalt in front of me. I leaned forward so I could see right in front of my tire. Last time, my attention was behind it and look what happened. I was still incredibly unsteady and watching the blur of small pebbles and lines in the road. I kept my focus and started to get excited when I realized that I wasn’t wrecking.
“Jake! Stop!”
The terror in my Dad’s voice caused me look up with enough time to swear right before I collided with the neighbor’s brown Ford. My face smacked the tailgate, then my bike and I landed on the pavement in a pile of scrapes and outrage. Even at a young age, I muttered the words my parents used when they were angry.
“Pick a point, way ahead of you Jake. That will give you time to plan and to turn and brake if you need to.”
I straddled my red bmx, with white knuckles wrapped around the handlebars and went through the launching process once more. This time, I rode steadier. I kept my head up and my eyes glared at the road ahead of me. I had to conquer my street. I couldn’t crash because it hurt like hell. I just had to keep my eyes on the road ahead of me.
It’s the first time I’ve written for the Blog Carnival in a while. This week’s theme is “Future”. Check out the other amazing writers and leave them some comment love! Thanks to Peter Pollock for hosting!

“my bike and I landed on the pavement in a pile of scrapes and outrage.” — I LOVE how you write, Jake. Seriously.
Thanks Kathy. I was pretty content with that line. Originally, it wasn’t outrage, it was anger… but I knew it could be better. Don’t you love when a sentence comes together? 🙂
I couldn’t crash because it hurt like hell. I just had to keep my eyes on the road ahead of me.
Sound, sound advice—and a good story to drive it home.
Thanks Anne!
“Pick a point, way ahead of you Jake. That will give you time to plan and to turn and brake if you need to.”
This really hit me. I think it’s too easy for me to be watching what’s going on right now or even looking back to see what I have done, that I end up smacking into walls cause I’m not looking ahead. Great post Jake!
I’m totally focused on the now so bloody often. It’s sad, but the tyranny of the urgent really can impact our lives!
Thanks Jason!
Hi Jake,
That must have been a seriously quality bike to stand up to those crashes. You might have wished it would been wrecked after the first crash. 🙂
Lou Barba
Lou, I’m glad to see you made it back! My bike was the most beat up, sorry piece of metal by the time I was done with it… but I had fun. I’m assuming the same may be true of other things in my life too. They’re only possessions, right?
This is an awesome story and reflection. Thank you.
Thanks Ryan! I definitely enjoyed writing it!
Your dream to ride your bike well came into fruition because of your persistence. Looking to a point ahead is like setting goals. Your illustration was exceptional and I enjoyed this great Post.
Hi … found you via the Blog Carnival.
Love this story … especially the conclusion, looking at the road ahead! Great advice.
Love. This.
It’s easy to focus only on our short-term goals and ignore the long view. But there can be so much more pain if we neglect to pay attention to where our path is leading us.
Fantastic post!
I remember doing exactly the same thing with boy of my boys – and each elarned a different way. One focused on a point ahead of him; the other focused on finding the spot where he could balance. (They told me this late.) But, oh yes, their dad ran right along side both of them.
Good post.
Great stuff as usual Jake! You have a gift.
Thanks, Sir! Nothing better than looking toward the future with unbiased, naive, incredibly unexperienced eyes, right?
this happened last week didn’t it?
maybe……